Lead With Your Heart…


It is all about FLOW! 

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, author of “Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience,” describes flow as “being completely involved in an activity for its own sake. The ego falls away. Time flies. Every action, movement, and thought follows inevitably from the previous one, like playing jazz. Your whole being is involved, and you’re using your skills to the utmost.”

FLOW is about connecting…with your PASSION and your JOY

Success is about connecting…with your PASSION and your JOY

Selling is about connecting… with your PASSION and your JOY


Are these the words that are the foundation for your ideal life’s work ?  How are you DESIGNING your ideal life’s work?

Here are some things to ponder:

  • When are you most happy?
    • When are you in FLOW   
    • Understand your own personal process of FLOW.
  • Does every action you take move you forward AND allow you to stay in FLOW?
    • This means that you might have to make some changes
    • You will create more space, balance, clarity and focus in your  business AND your life!
  • Uncover any hidden (or hiding) gifts or talents or passions that you delight in and weave these into your life’s and your business’ design
  • Supports your core mission based in your passion!
  • Creating actions based on your strategy to move you forward
  • HAVE MORE FUN!!!!!


Flow is about building and cultivating a relationship with yourself

Success is about building and cultivating a relationship with yourself

Selling is all about building and cultivating a relationship with yourself…and THEN with others (or simultaneously if you so choose!) 

Cultivating an even deeper relationship with my own heart is a never-ending processit is an ongoing journey.  From this place; grounded in my intrinsic value as a human being, sharing my gifts and leading with my heart, I create and nurture relationships with others.   From this place magic happens…

I am grateful for these relationships I have cultivated and the magical opportunities that have unfolded from them:

My New Blog on The Huffington Post !!!   You can follow me there too!

Ideal and like-minded clients

Joint venture opportunities

Leadership roles within thriving organizations

Speaking Opportunities

Many new platforms for me to share my message:  Lead with  your HEART and follow with your head

What are you grateful for?

I would love to talk to you and, if you so desire, support you getting your message out there…living your dream and FLOWing with your life, NOT AGAINST IT!

  • I can help you design a life/business strategy that is based in your heart, your passion, your desires
    • GET in FLOW and STAY IN FLOW (it is a process and having support is so helpful)
    • Infuse your joy and passion into your business
    • BE inspired all the time!
  • Guided action steps that WILL ensure you stay fluid and move you forward…in the direction of your dreams!
    • HAVE FUN…these actions will be created FROM your passion, so will not only move you forward, but will be easy and FUN!
  • Soft FOCUS, Support, guidance, direction, spirit, energy, easy accountability
  • Renewed and/or found passion….FLOW
  • Transformation…when we lead with our hearts, working from the “inside, out” we are bound to learn, grow, gain wisdom and transform our selves, our lives and our businesses!
  • FUN FUN FUN!  Yes, I like to have fun…and why shouldn’t we?  :) 


 What do you want? What makes you happy?  What do you need?

Let’s get to know each other…

There are many ways we can work together…let’s have a conversation and see what unfolds!!!


“Carolyn Rothstein-Ziel of Essential Selling is not only a sassy, dear friend. She’s brilliant at what she does. I had a three-hour strategy session with her that was BEYOND HELPFUL in getting me focused and clear with where I’m headed in my business. I will continue to sing her praises and highly recommend her!!”  Jennifer Frances www.theblessingmaven.com Please stay tuned for the magic and the brilliance that will be unfolding in Jennifer Frances’ business in 2011

“I had an amazing strategy session with Carolyn Ziel/Essential Selling’. We were able to LASER focus and prioritize my actions.  She helped me to cut through all the overwhelming options I have so I could clear a path that aligned with my CORE MISSION, my excellence, my passions and my talents.  NOW I get faster results for my efforts. It is nice to be on the receiving end of such powerful attention.  And already I am getting the right opportunities for my efforts!”  Lisa Greenfield; www.truthinhand.com More brilliance will be unfolding and stay tuned for Lisa Greenfield’s Truth in Hand business to explode as well in 2011!

“I’m not easily impressed or WOWed so when I say I am WOWed by Carolyn and her fresh ideas and imagination you can take it to the bank.  She really listens and gets involved in your vision to help hone it and make it happen.  When I have worked with Carolyn she made me feel I could do anything.  She is as committed to your project as you are and is no-nonsense about keeping your feet to the fire to achieve you aspirations.  She lifts you up when you feel overwhelmed.  So if you are serious about making your dream a reality then I strongly recommend Carolyn Ziel.”  –Carol Pilkington; Transformational Relationship Trainer  Please stay tuned as Carol Pilkington shares her brilliance with the world in 2011!


Reach out to me via phone or email!

I want to get to know you!  You can get to know me!  We can see what magic will unfold!



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